100 Fun 'Would You Rather' Questions for Couples

We've put together 100 questions about every relationship topic from daily life to deep feelings, intimacy and sex. So, whether you're just chilling at home or on a long drive, these questions will make your time together more fun and bring you closer.

Getting to Know Each Other

1. Would you rather always cook or always do the dishes?
2. Would you rather have a night out or a movie night in?
3. Would you rather travel by car or plane for vacations?
4. Would you rather wake up early or stay up late?
5. Would you rather spend a day without your phone or without TV?
6. Would you rather have a pet cat or a pet dog?
7. Would you rather live in a big city or in the countryside?
8. Would you rather do laundry or clean the house?
9. Would you rather shop online or in-store?
10. Would you rather have a minimalist or a cozy, cluttered home?
11. Would you rather go to a fancy restaurant or a simple café?
12. Would you rather cook a fancy meal together or order takeout?
13. Would you rather have a quiet evening or a night with friends?
14. Would you rather have a garden or a swimming pool?
15. Would you rather read a book or watch a series together?
16. Would you rather have an organized schedule or go with the flow?
17. Would you rather exercise together or separately?
18. Would you rather have a home-cooked meal or fine dining?
19. Would you rather have a hot summer day or a cold winter night?
20. Would you rather spend a day in nature or in a bustling city?

Love, Intimacy, and Sex

1. Would you rather cuddle every night or have deep conversations?
2. Would you rather have a passionate relationship or a stable, calm one?
3. Would you rather be with someone who's more adventurous or more reserved in bed?
4. Would you rather have more frequent sex or more meaningful sex?
5. Would you rather try new things in bed or stick to what you know?
6. Would you rather be more affectionate in public or private?
7. Would you rather talk about your fantasies or keep them secret?
8. Would you rather have a partner who takes the lead or follows your lead in bed?
9. Would you rather have a spontaneous sex life or a scheduled one?
10. Would you rather focus on physical intimacy or emotional intimacy?
11. Would you rather have a night of romance or a night of wild passion?
12. Would you rather have a partner who is vocal or quiet in bed?
13. Would you rather make love in the morning or at night?
14. Would you rather explore kinks together or keep things vanilla?
15. Would you rather have a partner who is always ready for sex or one who needs warming up?
16. Would you rather have sex in unusual places or in the comfort of your bedroom?
17. Would you rather have a quickie or a long, drawn-out session?
18. Would you rather have foreplay be the main event or just a precursor?
19. Would you rather have a partner who's experimental or one who knows what they like?
20. Would you rather end the day with a kiss or start the day with one?

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Future Plans and Dreams

1. Would you rather travel the world or build your dream home?
2. Would you rather start a business together or work for a company?
3. Would you rather retire early or continue working later in life?
4. Would you rather have a big family or a small one?
5. Would you rather live in your hometown forever or move around?
6. Would you rather have a predictable life or one full of surprises?
7. Would you rather pursue your dream job or have financial security?
8. Would you rather live abroad or in your home country?
9. Would you rather have a busy city life or a peaceful rural life?
10. Would you rather achieve personal success or contribute to society?
11. Would you rather go on an adventurous trip or a relaxing vacation?
12. Would you rather learn a new language together or a new skill?
13. Would you rather plan for the future or live in the moment?
14. Would you rather have a simple life or a life full of luxury?
15. Would you rather pursue further education or focus on career?
16. Would you rather volunteer together or start a joint venture?
17. Would you rather write a book together or start a blog?
18. Would you rather have many acquaintances or a few close friends?
19. Would you rather be famous or remain anonymous?
20. Would you rather live by the sea or in the mountains?

Personal Preferences and Tastes

1. Would you rather watch a comedy or a drama?
2. Would you rather listen to music or podcasts?
3. Would you rather have a sweet or savory breakfast?
4. Would you rather dress casually or formally?
5. Would you rather spend money on experiences or things?
6. Would you rather have a night in with pizza or a fancy dinner?
7. Would you rather go to a concert or a sports event?
8. Would you rather have a spontaneous trip or a well-planned one?
9. Would you rather play video games or board games?
10. Would you rather read fiction or non-fiction?
11. Would you rather have coffee or tea in the morning?
12. Would you rather watch a new movie or rewatch an old favorite?
13. Would you rather have a sweet dessert or a healthy snack?
14. Would you rather go hiking or swimming?
15. Would you rather attend a party or have a quiet night?
16. Would you rather visit a museum or an amusement park?
17. Would you rather listen to old music or current hits?
18. Would you rather have a long conversation or enjoy comfortable silence?
19. Would you rather go out for breakfast or for dinner?
20. Would you rather wear bright colors or neutral tones?

Relationship Dynamics

1. Would you rather be the one who apologizes first or who forgives first?
2. Would you rather plan a surprise for your partner or be surprised?
3. Would you rather spend time with your partner's family or yours?
4. Would you rather work on a project together or separately?
5. Would you rather have a rule-free day or a meticulously planned day?
6. Would you rather make big decisions jointly or individually?
7. Would you rather always say what’s on your mind or keep things to yourself?
8. Would you rather have a partner who’s more outgoing or introverted?
9. Would you rather be with someone who’s exactly like you or very different?
10. Would you rather have a partner who’s a great cook or a great listener?
11. Would you rather go on double dates or solo dates?
12. Would you rather have a partner who’s a spender or a saver?
13. Would you rather have a relationship that’s more romantic or practical?
14. Would you rather have your partner plan your birthday or plan it yourself?
15. Would you rather have a partner who is always early or often late?
16. Would you rather be with someone who shares your hobbies or has different ones?
17. Would you rather have a partner who’s a risk-taker or plays it safe?
18. Would you rather spend a day without talking or a day without touching?
19. Would you rather have more couple friends or individual friends?
20. Would you rather work on personal growth together or independently?